Smile and the world will smile with you. A major factor on the first date is to show enthusiasm, this is a big part in the introduction as it will show the level of energy in the conversations between you and your date. It’s a good indicator. So get in the right state of mind by giving off a great persona- you can’t go wrong.
As the old saying goes “If you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it all”. Keep a positive atmosphere so remember you’ve only just met your date so keep a positive impression.
Stay central to your date. Maintain the eye contact- show great confidence in the adult you are. So avoid darting off looking in another direction or staring at an object. Keeping eye contact shows that you are comfortable with your date.
Ask open ended questions so you can get a better understanding of your date; get to know who you’re actually talking to. This is what you’re here for… isn’t it? But leave enough information for your second, third and so forth dates to keep the momentum of interest alive.
What to wear? Men and Women differ greatly in this department. Men should always dress up for the occasion, make the effort, as well as clean shaven and tidy hair. Ladies do not make the error of dressing overboard as it can give off the wrong in impression of being too sexual. A general rule of thumb is to keep it simple. |